A Life Built on
Connections


I used to be afraid of my own voice for 27 years. Then I sat with over 2,000 elders in their final days.


Then I sat with over 2,000 elders in their final days. They taught me what really matters.
"At the end, no one wishes they'd worked more. They wish they'd loved deeper."


Now I live between two truths, My children's hands reaching for mine and a calling in my heart to build a world where every connection leaves a mark of love and meaning.


This is what I've learned. We think we're living life, but really, life lives through our connect ions.

Where My Heart Lives


Speaking

I share hard-won wisdom about:

  • First breaths and last goodbyes - why both matter equally
  • The 2,000 lessons - what dying people taught me about living
  • Finding your voice - how I overcame 27 years of silence

"The stage isn't about me. It's about helping others feel less alone."

Reading and Writing
Reading
  • My lifelong passion - because every book is someone's hard-earned wisdom waiting to be shared.
I put pen to paper because:
  • Stories bridge hearts
  • Words can heal old wounds
  • Someone needs to hear "I understand"

"The stage isn't about me. It's about helping others feel less alone."

Entrepreneurship

I build businesses that:

  • Connect hearts before transactions
  • Measure success in relationships, not just revenue
  • Become places where real life happens

"Good business isn't about moving products—it's about moving people."

My Circle

Life's true wealth:

  • My wife and children — who turn ordinary days into sacred moments
  • My parents — whose quiet sacrifices echo through my life
  • My mentors — who saw my potential when I couldn't
  • My friends — the family I chose
  • Those 2,000 souls — my most profound teachers

"We don't remember days, we remember connections."

The 1000 days at the beginning and end of our life: Caring for our elderly.

His first child was born and, as all babies are, was in need of a world of care and connection with those who loved him.

Who loves us the most? Syam's insight into our final 1000 days is a reminder of what matters.

We spend hours on social media looking for connections to make our lives more meaningful.

Testimonials

“They would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my family and I would have kept them a little bit closer.’” This is a great insight, Syam. Made me a bit teary. “I would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my father and I would have kept him a little bit closer.’”

Thank you for focusing on and highlighting the needs of older people in aged care.

31 December 2024

“They would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my family and I would have kept them a little bit closer.’” This is a great insight, Syam. Made me a bit teary. I also see this exact point in reversal as the daughter of my father, living with Alzheimers, who spent his last 5 years in a nursing home. “I would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my father and I would have kept him a little bit closer.’”

Thank you for focusing on and highlighting the needs of older people in aged care.

31 December 2024

“They would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my family and I would have kept them a little bit closer.’” This is a great insight, Syam. Made me a bit teary. I also see this exact point in reversal as the daughter of my father, living with Alzheimers, who spent his last 5 years in a nursing home. “I would say that – ‘I would have spent more time with my father and I would have kept him a little bit closer.’”

Thank you for focusing on and highlighting the needs of older people in aged care.

31 December 2024

Let's Connect Before It's Too Late